Showing posts with label Stereotypes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Stereotypes. Show all posts

Saturday, January 16, 2016

Kaleidescope

Happy 3rd Saturday of 2016! Please enjoy today's post.

The road turns as does the picture
Every choice, a nuance
Every moment, a fractal
The picture
Will never again
Be what it was before
Now is now
Always new
Staying in the past is like
Asking your wings
Dry and strong
To fold up
Hold up
While you figure out
What you're trying to be
Reflection is good sometimes
But you've got flying to do
Hills
Valleys
Mountains
Water fountains
Dancing with the air
Every beat of the heart
Of the wing
Creates a new thing
And the old will never be
Again

With words, songs, and prayers,
Tiffany V

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Exposed Nerves

Happy Saturday to ya! Here is a Saturday Post!

Exposed Nerves

There are a lot of feelings
Around
Going around
Making their rounds
Like the tide
Like the seasons
Visitors
Not residents
Emotions
In motion
Let them come
Let them go
Appreciate them
Make room for them
Share them
Evict them
Welcome them again


"Crush them darts and keep it movin'!" - Mom
"What you are learning is preparing you for where you are going." - Pastor's wife
"We need to get our nails did!" - Kristy O.
"Chocolate don't play." - Seddy Bear
"I'll cry for you." - Cece
"Ennnnnnnnh..." - Hubs

(Tiffanyzed to protect the... innocent?)


BTW, new logo and website coming... stay tuned! And don't forget to pick up a copy of 
Ugly Drawers, Pretty Panties - makes a great Christmas gift!

With Words, Song & Prayer,
Tiffany V

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Brown Round Things - For Somi

You India me
About my hair
I am not it
But you've tagged me
Calling me out
Sliding down my beloved ringlets
I'm it now
Finally home
After Celtic journeys
Those knots
Not my nots
My nots are no longer my knots
I am a yes now
I own it
I say it out loud
I am the black fae
Hidden from me
By my own self
Til
Recently
I
My own wicked stepsister
But now I've saved them
Save my brown round things
No longer for sale
I've apologized
And now I'm planting seeds
I stand hopeful
Cynical
With my sisters
And brothers
Us sistas and bruthas
Us Fae
Not African
Not American
But here nonetheless
And thanking you
For calling out
The brown round things
For sale



With words, song & prayer, TiMo

Saturday, September 13, 2014

Coffee... Oh How I Love Thee

Hey Y'all! Here's your Saturday Post!


Yep... this about sums it up.

Punta Cana Coffee Love
August 2014 © Tiffany Monique

With words, song & prayer,
TiMo
Here's where you can read me:
www.alwaysalreadyalright.com 
www.pmeqme.blogspot.com

Saturday, March 15, 2014

Saturday Post 3.15.14

My Friends
I am blessed with a wonderful circle of friends.
Some closer than others.
Some more artistic.
Some speak into my soul.
Some speak into my workplace.
Some speak by not speaking.
For example
Sarah reminds me artistically, intellectually, and spiritually to be myself and push my own boundaries.

Sarah: "You may forget it sometimes, and that's okay, but you are in a womb of love, care, and concern of which you cannot measure the height, width, or depth. It is also living. It moves, breathes, and flows with you. It is here for your protection, for your comfort, and to help nourish you as you grow and develop. I am humbled that I get to be a small piece of it. I am also proud. In the short eternity I have known you, I have watched you love and fight. I have watched you win and lose. I have watched you sing and dance. All of that, it was you spinning a cocoon, and making that change. You were beautiful and strong before, but when you emerge, when you see the dragonfly you have become, you are going to be so splendid you will barely recognize yourself any more. All of those things that tripped you up before, when you were living life on the ground, they ain't gonna matter no more, because baby you is gonna have wings, and you is gonna soar!"
Another example
Deborah is one of those friends I lost touch with for almost a decade, and when we got back together, we cracked up laughing like it was lunch the next day. I commissioned a painting from her, and she completed and delivered it seven years later. The story of our friendship is as magical as the creation of the painting, and I even wrote about it in The Examiner.
Read the story of "The Seven Year Painting" on Examiner
These are just TWO.
I'm so blessed by the friends I have.
They post notes on my life journey.
Some with their presence
Some with their story
I am weighed down and given wings
By their love

With words, song & prayer, TiMo
www.alwaysalreadyalright.blogspot.com
www.pmeqme.blogspot.com
Onward Looking - February 2014

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Saturday Post 2.22.14

Sorry, no poetry or prose today. I'm distracted a bit.

I'm thinking about divas.
Do you want to be a diva?
Read my article in the San Diego Examiner
I used to call my female friends diva (or goddess) a lot.

In 2011 my pastor in VA decided he didn't want any more to do with the word diva. I was annoyed with him at the time, but now I am beginning to see the wisdom of the slippery slope that the word is on, and his decision to step back from the slope.

I wrote about it in San Diego's Urban Arts Examiner. There are so many great singers out there, but not nearly the amount of diva's the industry in America is trying to portray.

What do you think?

With words, song & prayer,
TiMo
www.alwaysalreadyalright.blogspot.com
www.pmeqme.blogspot.com
Onward Looking
Feb 2014

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Compliments, Callings, & Michele

Before she passed in October 2011, my friend Michele told me, "at 35 you're gonna be a beast!" I post this in honor of her blessing me with her life and friendship (with an audio recording of this post at the end).

Had she read the post below, she would have nodded her head, and said "Whatchusay!" in her "and-that's-the-end-of-that-conversation" kinda way. Then we would have cracked up laughing about matriarchy and patriarchy and insecurity and strength, then debated marriage and prostitution. I miss her so. And I wonder what she'd have said to what my friend posted here:


Speaking of Michele and stereotypes... Here's a thought or two to ponder (via story)... this past Sunday I was taken to lunch by a friend from church, where I've been given the new nickname "Princess", which I found, at first, the biggest joke EVER.

Up until recently, whenever I heard the term "Princess", I knee-jerk stereotyped the idea of some scantily clad entitlement-junkie teenager acting spoiled, arrogant, self-absorbed and unkind. Now I am sure that there are moments when I embody all of these things (sometimes all at once, yeesh!), but now I am beginning to rethink this whole "princess" thing. My paradigm has to shift. It comes with age and wisdom. I called myself a goddess for years, based on the logic that I am a child of God, and so I must be some form of lower case goddess. It was to me, at its most basic premise, semantic argument, but I digress.

Why not be a princess? It would mean I am a role model (check), I have to follow certain "protocols" (check), I can't just do or say anything I want because the consequences are greater by nature of my position (working on it... grace is needed here), etc.

So... I am a princess, a ninja (with a sword), a part-time khaleesi... and these are titles I've come into within the last 30 days (if that). It is definitely something to consider. I wonder how Michele would see all this.
(c) 2013 Tiffany Monique -
"Yours Truly in Galleta Meadows feelin' all Khaleesi"
No I don't.

Michele would have loved it.  WHATCHUSAY!

With words, song & prayer,
TiMo
(Listen to the blog post here)

(c) 2011 Tiffany Monique
Yours Truly, Summertime in Vermont

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

I'm inviting Tyler Perry to "Dinner at Tiffany's"

I'm inviting Tyler Perry to Dinner at Tiffany's.
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Because of this prayer (posted on Facebook earlier today):
Here’s a prayer for today: “God help me hold on, help me to get to what I dream of, help me to honor where I am today so that I can appreciate where I will be tomorrow. In Jesus' name.”
Man, that is such an awesome prayer for me to read as I am stepping out into my artistic entrepreneurship. The above prayer came at the end of a post he entitled, "This is for Frustrated Dreamers". I have friends who will totally love that post, and some who will give it little if any weight. This is fine. It was highly inspirational for me when I read it. Perry related his feelings about his past; of hating to go to work and being emotionally and physically destitute because he was in a place where he knew his dreams were real but they weren't physically in his face. I appreciated his honesty and his perseverance.
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Anyone who knows me knows that I am a dreamer (almost to a fault... almost). Some of my dreams are quite obvious, and some are so huge (yet personal) that I have only told a few people. I've told two or three people a couple of my dreams, and they did laugh. But it may have been my outfit. If you are wondering, my dreams no longer have anything to do with the ice capades.
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The point is this. If I could, I would invite Tyler Perry to Dinner at Tiffany's. I'd have him join me in O'side, CA at A Word With You Press (lovingly shortened to AWwYP) for one of the Anti-Social Writers and Creative Misfits Read & Respond Session (preceded by foodage most yum, cooked by moi).

I'd sit him down next to Russ and Michele, and feed him something with a lot of garlic (we love garlic at AWwYP). Perhaps I'd make steamed shrimp and blacked asparagus, (Akesha would be there with yet another of his most amazing salad concoctions) and I'd even consider concocting a dump cake (so named because it is simple & AWESOME).
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It would be my hope that my favorite misfits and smart alecs would all be in attendance. It would make for the most hilarious yet productive night. Ed would read some random flash fiction about ham and ugly skirts. Then Kyle would take us on an emotive safari to the cold Canada climate as she read her next installment. Russ and Thorn would be well stocked and steadily firing their writing advice as Mr. Perry would sit there comfortably, adding his own insight while laughing hysterically at our jokes (we are a pun-riddled group the likes of which can only be compared to Bob Hope).
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Billy would then read a poem that would make all of our minds feel saturated with descriptive prose. Perhaps someone new would come, and drop tendrils of literary tresses in the air. Ronnie would remind us to keep the story moving and not get lost in the prose (I love this about Ronnie). And at the end of the evening, Tyler Perry would help us rearrange tables before taking the time shake hands and hug those present. He may take a Tupperware bowl with him (if any food is left) as his limo picked him up to whisk him off to whereever.

Or...I wouldn't cook. All I gotta do is dream.

Yours Truly, Summer 2011

With words, song & love,


P.S. It's not too late to submit for the Wingnuts Contest Entry. Deadline is 6/10/13! If you want, you can read my first submission here.